What’s in the way of taking care of yourself?
When there’s nothing left in your tank, what do you do? When it’s difficult for you to keep your head above water, what do you do? When you see people who need help, do you spend your energy to help them or do you preserve your energy for yourself?
If no one at your company has the energy to spare, what are the consequences? If a small problem isn’t solved quickly, might it snowball into something unmanageable? If a series of unsolved problems develop into a series of avalanches, couldn’t that change the character of your company? If everyone at your company is out of gas, what does that say?
If your calendar is full of standing meetings, you have no time for deep work. But, if your calendar has free space, that gives others the opportunity to fill your calendar with their priorities. Is it okay to say no to a meeting? Is it okay to preserve time for deep thought? Is it okay to cancel the whole meeting series for a standing meeting? What would it mean to your mental health if you deleted standing meetings and freed up six hours per week? What would it mean to the quality of your work? Might you even get to do the foundational work that is vital to next year’s success?
What would it mean if you could create a four-hour block of uninterrupted time that recurred wice per week? What could you accomplish in those two luscious time blocks? How many problems could you avoid? How many cross-team relationships could build? How much could you learn from researching the state-of-the-art? How much could you accelerate your projects? How many young people could you help?
What’s in the way of canceling some meetings? Is your mental health worth it? What’s in the way of scheduling a four-hour meeting with yourself twice a week? Is your work important enough? What’s in the way of stopping work at a reasonable time so you can get your personal things done, get some exercise, and spend time with your family? What would your company think if you took care of yourself and had some energy to spare for others?
What’s in the way of taking care of yourself?
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Your core business is your greatest strength and your greatest weakness.
Your core business, the long-standing business that has made you what you are, is both your greatest strength and your greatest weakness.
The Core generates the revenue, but it also starves fledgling businesses so they never make it off the ground.
There’s a certainty with the Core because it builds on success, but its success sets the certainty threshold too high for new businesses. And due to the relatively high level of uncertainty of the new business (as compared to the Core) the company can’t find the gumption to make the critical investments needed to reach orbit.
The Core has generated profits over the decades and those profits have been used to create the critical infrastructure that makes its success easier to achieve. The internal startup can’t use the Core’s infrastructure because the Core doesn’t share. And the Core has the power to block all others from taking advantage of the infrastructure it created.
The Core has grown revenue year-on-year and has used that revenue to build out specialized support teams that keep the flywheel moving. And because the Core paid for and shaped the teams, their support fits the Core like a glove. A new offering with a new value proposition and new business model cannot use the specialized support teams effectively because the new offering needs otherly-specialized support and because the Core doesn’t share.
The Core pays the bills, and new ventures create bills that the Core doesn’t like to pay.
If the internal startup has to compete with the Core for funding, the internal startup will fail.
If the new venture has to generate profits similar to the Core, the venture will be a misadventure.
If the new offering has to compete with the Core for sales and marketing support, don’t bother.
If the fledgling business’s metrics are assessed like the Core’s metrics, it won’t fly, it will flounder.
If you try to run a new business from within the Core, the Core will eat it.
To work effectively with the Core, borrow its resources, forget how it does the work, and run away.
To protect your new ventures from the Core, physically separate them from the Core.
To protect your new businesses from the Core, create a separate budget that the Core cannot reach.
To protect your internal startup from the Core, make sure it needs nothing from the Core.
To accelerate the growth of the fledgling business, make it safe to violate the Core’s first principles.
To bolster the capability of your new business, move resources from the Core to the new business.
To de-risk the internal startup, move functional support resources from the Core to the startup.
To fund your new ventures, tax the Core. It’s the only way.
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Everyone is doing their best, even though it might not look that way.
In these trying times when stress is high, supply chains are empty, and the pandemic is still alive and well, here’s a mantra to hold onto:
Everyone is doing their best, even though it might not look that way.
When restaurants are only open four days a week because they have no one to take the orders and clean the dishes, they are trying their best. Sure, you can’t go there for dinner on those off-days. And, sure, it cramps your style. And, sure, it looks like they’re doing it just to piss you off. But they are trying their best. They want to be open. They want to serve you dinner and take your money. It may not look like it, but they are doing their best. How might you hold onto that reality? How might you engage your best self and respond accordingly?
The situation at restaurants is one of many where people are trying their best but environmental realities have caused their best to be less than it was. Car dealers want to sell cars, but there are fewer of them to sell. The prices are higher, the choices are fewer, and the lead times are longer. The salespeople aren’t out to get you; there’s simply more demand than cars. If you want a car, try to buy one. But if you can’t or you don’t like the price, what does it say about you if you get angry at the salesperson? It may not look like it, but they are trying their best. How might you hold onto that? What would it take for you to behave like they are trying their best?
Plumbers and electricians have more work than they can handle. If they don’t answer their phone, or don’t respond quickly, or respond with a quote that’s higher than you think reasonable, don’t take it personally. They are doing their best. Plumbers actually like to trade their time for your money and it’s the same with electricians. But, there are simply more pipes to be worked on than there are plumbers to work them. And there’s more wiring to do than there are electricians to do work. Their best isn’t as good as it was, but it’s still their best. You can get angry, but that won’t get your leaks fixed or your new electrical outlets installed. How might you hold onto the fact that they are doing their best? And, how might you engage your best self to respond with kindness and understanding?
And it’s the same situation at work. Everyone is trying their best, though it may look that way. Our families or parents are struggling; our kids are having a difficult time; we can’t find plumbers; we can’t hire electricians; we cannot afford new cars prices; there are no cars to buy; and the restaurants are closed. This is crazy enough on its own, but all those outside stressors are sitting on top of a collection of work-related stressors. There are many vacant positions so there are fewer people to do the work; competitors have upped the pressure; under the banner of doing more with less, more projects have been added, even though there are fewer people; and profitability goals have been turned up to eleven.
How might we hold onto the reality that our personal lives are stressful and, though we are trying harder than ever, our best CANNOT be good as it used to be? And how might we hold onto the reality that with such stress at home, we are giving our all but we have LESS to give.
Let’s help each other hold onto the mantra:
Everyone is doing their best, even though it might not look that way.
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The Power of the Trust Network
The members of the Trust Network have worked together for a long time. And over that time together they’ve developed trust-based relationships that are more powerful than almost anything in the universe.
The Trust Network knows the work intimately and can do it in their sleep. They intuitively know the work should be started, the work should come next, the work should come after that, and the work should be scuttled.
In meetings, members of the Trust Network represent each other’s positions and protect each other’s interests. They’ve worked so long together that they know what each other think and can anticipate each other’s moves. The Trust Network communicates so quickly you’d think they’re telepathic. In truth, they’re only almost telepathic.
Members of the Trust Network don’t wear team jackets or advertise their membership status in any way. In fact, they never even call the network by name. You don’t know who they are, but they do. They hold regular meetings, though those meetings look like every other regular meeting. The Trust Network hides in plain sight.
When a project slowly emerges from the ether and blossoms into something special, that’s the workings of the Trust Network. When there’s no money to pay for an important purchase, yet the money mysteriously finds its way to the person who needs it, that’s the workings of the Trust Network. When a highly utilized piece of equipment suddenly comes available to support a seemingly unimportant project, that’s because the Trust Network knows it is truly an important project.
When a Vice President starts a pet project and tries to push it over the finish line, it’s the Trust Network that creates the resistance. When resources are slow to start the work, that’s the Trust Network. When emergency-type problems conveniently pull resources from the critical path, that’s the Trust Network. When the technical people stand up and say “this won’t work,” it’s the Trust Network that made it safe for them to say it.
When the formal org chart can’t get it done, the Trust Network engages to get it done. They simply come together to get the right people working on the right work, get the right analyses done, and invoke the right processes and tools right tools. The Trust Network doesn’t ask permission.
In an arm-wrestling match between the formal organizational network and the informal Trust Network, the formal network doesn’t stand a chance.
When the Trust Network sees organizational shenanigans, it turns the volume up to eleven. When the Trust Network sees people being mistreated, they get angry and swarm the troublemakers. And though it’s an invisible swarm, it’s a swarm that stings. And because its prime directive is to protect the hive, it’s a swarm that will not stop until the mistreatment stops. And because they know the work so well, they know how to sting in the most painful way.
If you want to be tapped for membership in the Trust Network, here’s what you should do. When there’s a big problem, run toward that problem like your hair is on fire and fix the problem. Don’t ask permission. Just fix it. When there’s a project that’s in trouble, donate resources and your time. Don’t ask. Just get the project back on the rails. When you see someone that’s suffering or having difficulty, help them. Don’t ask them if they want your help. Just help them. When you see someone that is about to make a big mistake, invite them to coffee, and help them make a better decision or take a better approach. Don’t ask, just help.
The Trust Network is always looking for new members and will reach out to you after you make a habit of demonstrating the right behavior.
Here are two more posts on the Trust Network — The Trust Network and Trust Network II.
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A Recipe to Grow Revenue Now
If you want to grow the top line right now, create a hard constraint – the product cannot change – and force the team to look for growth outside the product. Since all the easy changes to the product have been made, without a breakthrough the small improvements bring diminishing returns. There’s nothing left here. Make them look elsewhere.
If you want to grow the top line without changing the product, make it easier for customers to buy the products you already have.
If you want to make it easier for customers to buy what you have, eliminate all things that make buying difficult. Though this sounds obvious and trivial, it’s neither. It’s exceptionally difficult to see the waste in your processes from the customers’ perspective. The blackbelts know how to eliminate waste from the company’s perspective, but they’ve not been taught to see waste from the customers’ perspective. Don’t believe me? Look at the last three improvements you made to the customers’ buying process and ask yourself who benefitted from those changes. Odds are, the changes you made reduced the number of people you need to process the transactions by pushing the work back into the customers’ laps. This is the opposite of making it easier for your customers to buy.
Have you ever run a project to make it easier for customers to buy from you?
If you want to make it easier for customers to buy the products you have, pretend you are a customer and map their buying process. What you’ll likely learn is that it’s not easy to buy from you.
How can you make it easier for the customer to choose the right product to buy? Please don’t confuse this with eliminating the knowledgeable people who talk on the phone with customers. And, fight the urge to display all your products all at once. Minimize their choices, don’t maximize them.
How can you make it easier for customers to buy what they bought last time? A hint: when an existing customer hits your website, the first thing they should see is what they bought last time. Or, maybe, a big button that says – click here to buy [whatever they bought last time]. This, of course, assumes you can recognize them and can quickly match them to their buying history.
How can you make it easier for customers to pay for your product? Here’s a rule to live by: if they don’t pay, you don’t sell. And here’s another: you get no partial credit when a customer almost pays.
As you make these improvements, customers will buy more. You can use the incremental profits to fund the breakthrough work to obsolete your best products.
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Good Questions
This seems like a repeat of the last time we set a project launch date without regard for the work content. Do you see it that way?
This person certainly looks the part and went to the right school, but they have not done this work before. Why do you think we should hire them even though they don’t have the experience?
The last time we ran a project like this it took two years to complete. Why do you think this one will take six months?
If it didn’t work last time, why do you think it will work this time?
Why do you think we can do twice the work we did last year while reducing our headcount?
The work content, timeline, and budget are intimately linked. Why do you think it’s possible to increase the work content, pull in the timeline, and reduce the budget?
Seven out of thirteen people have left the team. How many people have to leave before you think we have a problem?
Yes, we’ve had great success with that approach over the last decade, but our most recent effort demonstrated that our returns are diminishing. Why do you want to do that again?
If you think it’s such a good idea, why don’t you do it?
Why do you think it’s okay to add another project when we’re behind on all our existing projects?
Customers are buying the competitive technology. Why don’t you believe that they’re now better than we are?
This work is critical to our success, yet we don’t have the skills sets, capacity, or budget to hire it out. Why are you telling us you will get it done?
This problem seems to fit squarely within your span of responsibility. Why do you expect other teams to fix it for you?
I know a resource gap of this magnitude seems unbelievable but is what the capacity model shows. Why don’t you believe the capacity model?
We have no one to do that work. Why do you think it’s okay to ask the team to sign up for something they can’t pull off?
Based on the survey results, the culture is declining. Why don’t you want to acknowledge that?
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How to Decide if Your Problem is Worth Solving
How to decide if a problem is worth solving?
If it’s a new problem, try to solve it.
If it’s a problem that’s already been solved, it can’t be a new problem. Let someone else re-solve it.
If a new problem is big, solve it in a small way. If that doesn’t work, try to solve it in a smaller way.
If there’s a consensus that the problem is worth solving, don’t bother. Nothing great comes from consensus.
If the Status Quo tells you not to solve it, you’ve hit paydirt!
If when you tell people about solving the problem they laugh, you’re onto something.
If solving the problem threatens the experts, double down.
If solving the problem obsoletes your most valuable product, solve it before your competition does.
If solving the problem blows up your value proposition, light the match.
If solving the problem replaces your product with a service, that’s a recipe for recurring revenue.
If solving the problem frees up a factory, well, now you have a free factory to make other things.
If solving the problem makes others look bad, that’s why they’re trying to block you from solving it.
If you want to know if you’re doing it right, make a list of the new problems you’ve tried to solve.
If your list is short, make it longer.
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If nine out of ten projects projects fail, you’re doing it wrong.
For work that has not been done before, there’s no right answer. The only wrong answer is to say “no” to trying something new. Sure, it might not work. But, the only way to guarantee it won’t work is to say no to trying.
If innovation projects fail nine out of ten times, you can increase the number of projects you try or you can get better at choosing the projects to say no to. I suggest you say learn to say yes to the one in ten projects that will be successful.
If you believe that nine out of ten innovation projects will fail, you shouldn’t do innovation for a living. Even if true, you can’t have a happy life going to work every day with a ninety percent chance of failure. That failure rate is simply not sustainable. In baseball, the very best hitters of all time were unsuccessful sixty percent of the time, yet, even they focused on the forty percent of the time they got it right. Innovation should be like that.
If you’ve failed on ninety percent of the projects you’ve worked on, you’ve probably been run out of town at least several times. No one can fail ninety percent of the time and hold onto their job.
If you’ve failed ninety percent of the time, you’re doing it wrong.
If you’ve failed ninety percent of the time, you’ve likely tried to solve the wrong problems. If so, it’s time to learn how to solve the right problems. The right problems have two important attributes: 1) People will pay you if they are solved. 2) They’re solvable. I think we know a lot about the first attribute and far too little about the second. The problem with solvability is that there’s no partial credit, meaning, if a problem is almost solvable, it’s not solvable. And here’s the troubling part: if a problem is almost solved, you get none of the money. I suggest you tattoo that one on your arm.
As a subject matter expert, you know what could work and what won’t. And if you don’t think you can tell the difference, you’re not a subject matter expert.
Here’s a rule to live by: Don’t work on projects that you know won’t work.
Here’s a corollary: If your boss asks you to work on something that won’t work, run.
If you don’t think it will work, you’re right, even if you’re not.
If it might work, that’s about right. If it will work, let someone else do it. If it won’t work, run.
If you’ve got no reason to believe it will work, it won’t.
If you can’t imagine it will work, it won’t.
If someone else says it won’t work, it might.
If someone else tries to convince you it won’t work, they may have selfish reasons to think that way.
It doesn’t matter if others think it won’t work. It matters what you think.
So, what do you think?
If you someone asks you to believe something you don’t, what will you do?
If you try to fake it until you make it, the Universe will make you pay.
If you think you can outsmart or outlast the Universe, you can’t.
If you have a bad feeling about a project, it’s a bad project.
If others tell you that it’s a bad project, it may be a good one.
Only you can decide if a project is worth doing.
It’s time for you to decide.
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Run toward the action!
Companies have control over one thing: how to allocate their resources. Companies allocate resources by deciding which projects to start, accelerate, and stop; whom to allocate to the projects; how to go about the projects; and whom to hire, invest in, and fire. That’s it.
Taking a broad view of project selection to include starting, accelerating, and stopping projects, as a leader, what is your role in project selection, or, at a grander scale, initiative selection? When was the last time you initiated a disruptive yet heretical new project from scratch? When was the last time you advocated for incremental funding to accelerate a floundering yet revolutionary project? When was the last time you stopped a tired project that should have been put to rest last year? And because the projects are the only thing that generates revenue for your company, how do you feel about all that?
Without your active advocacy and direct involvement, it’s likely the disruptive project won’t see the light of day. Without you to listen to the complaints of heresy and actively disregard them, the organization will block the much-needed disruption. Without your brazen zeal, it’s likely the insufficiently-funded project won’t revolutionize anything. Without you to put your reputation on the line and decree that it’s time for a revolution, the organization will starve the project and the revolution will wither. Without your critical eye and thought-provoking questions, it’s likely the tired project will limp along for another year and suck up the much-needed resources to fund the disruptions, revolutions, and heresy.
Now, I ask you again. How do you feel about your (in)active (un)involvement with starting projects that should be started, accelerating projects that should be accelerated, and stopping projects that should be stopped?
And with regard to project staffing, when was the last time you stepped in and replaced a project manager who was over their head? Or, when was the last time you set up a recurring meeting with a project manager whose project was in trouble? Or, more significantly, when was the last time you cleared your schedule and ran toward the smoke of an important project on fire? Without your involvement, the over-their-head project manager will drown. Without your investment in a weekly meeting, the troubled project will spiral into the ground. Without your active involvement in the smoldering project, it will flame out.
As a leader, do you have your fingers on the pulse of the most important projects? Do you have the knowledge, skills, and abilities to know which projects need help? And do you have the chops to step in and do what must be done? And how do you feel about all that?
As a leader, do you know enough about the work to provide guidance on a major course change? Do you know enough to advise the project team on a novel approach? Do you have the gumption to push back on the project team when they don’t want to listen to you? As a leader, how do you feel about that?
As a leader, you probably have direct involvement in important hiring and firing decisions. And that’s good. But, as a leader, how much of your time do you spend developing young talent? How many hours per week do you talk to them about the details of their projects and deliverables? How many hours per week do you devote to refactoring troubled projects with the young project managers? And how do you feel about that?
If you want to grow revenue, shape the projects so they generate more revenue. If you want to grow new businesses, advocate for projects that create new businesses. If you need a revolution, start revolutionary projects and protect them. And if you want to accelerate the flywheel, help your best project managers elevate their game.
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A Leading Indicator of Personal Growth — Fear
When was the last time you did something that scared you? And a more important follow-on question: How did you push through your fear and turn it into action?
Fear is real. Our bodies make it, but it’s real. And the feelings we create around fear are real, and so are the inhibitions we wrap around those feelings. But because we have the authority to make the fear, create the feelings, and wrap the inhibitions, we also have the authority to unmake, un-create, and unwrap.
Fear can feel strong. Whether it’s tightness in the gut, coldness in the chest, or lushness in the face, the physical manifestations in the body are recognizable and powerful. The sensations around fear are strong enough to stop us in our tracks. And in the wild of a bygone time, that was fear’s job – to stop us from making a mistake that would kill us. And though we no longer venture into the wild, fear responds to family dynamics, social situations, interactions at work, as if we still live in the wild.
To dampen the impact of our bodies’ fear response, the first step is to learn to recognize the physical sensations of fear for what they are – sensations we make when new situations arise. To do that, feel the sensations, acknowledge your body made them, and look for the novelty, or divergence from our expectations, that the sensations stand for. In that way, you can move from paralysis to analysis. You can move from fear as a blocker to fear as a leading indicator of personal growth.
Fear is powerful, and it knows how to create bodily sensations that scare us. But, that’s the chink in the armor that fear doesn’t want us to know. Fear is afraid to be called by name, so it generates these scary sensations so it can go on controlling our lives as it sees fit. So, next time you feel the sensations of fear in your body, welcome fear warmly and call it by name. Say something like, “Hello Fear. Thank you for visiting with me. I’d like to get to know you better. Can you stay for a coffee?”
You might find that Fear will engage in a discussion with you and apologize for causing you trouble. Fear may confess that it doesn’t like how it treats you and acknowledge that it doesn’t know how to change its ways. Or, it may become afraid and squirt more fear sensations into your body. If that happens, tell Fear that you understand it’s just doing what it evolved to do, and repeat your offer to sit with it and learn more about its ways.
The objective of calling Fear by name is to give you a process to feel and validate the sensations and then calm yourself by looking deeply at the novelty of the situation. By looking squarely into Fear’s eyes, it will slowly evaporate to reveal the nugget of novelty it was cloaking. And with the novelty in your sights, you can look deeply at this new situation (or context or interpersonal dynamic) and understand it for what it is. Without Fear’s distracting sensations, you will be pleasantly surprised with your ability to see the situation for what it is and take skillful action.
So, when Fear comes, feel the sensations. Don’t push them away. Instead, call Fear by name. Invite Fear to tell its story, and get to know it. You may find that accepting Fear for what it is can help you grow your relationship with Fear into a partnership where you help each other grow.
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What It Takes
Speak up. Your ideas can’t see daylight unless others know about them.
Be wrong. When you’re wrong, you sharpen the rightness.
Be right. When you’re right in the face of wrongness, everyone wins, except for you.
Stand tall. Stand behind your decisions, but you can’t be responsible for their outcome.
Be truthful, but not hurtful.
Be overwhelmed. This is difficult.
Give it away. When things go well, delegate credit to the up-and-coming. They’ll remember.
Support others. When someone’s in the bucket, pull them out. They’ll remember.
Pay it forward. A kind soul gave it to you, and it’s time to give it to someone else. They’ll remember.
Say “thank you.” And mean it.
Be quiet. When things are on the right track, there’s no need to derail.
Take the heat. When there’s a mistake, own it so the young don’t have to. They’ll remember.
Make room for others. Nothing blocks their growth like your career aspirations.
Say nothing negative, unless you can’t. And if you must, say it in private.
Praise publicly, loudly, and often.
Set up others for success. And when accused of doing so, plead ignorance.
Share your frustrations, but sparingly. Done skillfully, it’s a compliment.
Be human. People will notice.
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Mike Shipulski