Archive for the ‘Clarity’ Category
Some Things I’ve Learned

Slow down to go fast.
Progress over activity.
Effectiveness before efficiency.
Finish at the expense of starting.
Location is more important than destination.
See the system as it could be, not how it should be.
Brown field designs are real; green field designs are not.
What could go right is more important than what could go wrong.
Uncertainty is flexible, certainty is dangerous.
Learning before scaling.
People first.
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How To Believe In Yourself

Sometimes it’s difficult to believe in yourself. Here is a three-step process to elevate your self-belief.
- Find someone who believes in you.
- Ask them why they believe in you.
- Whatever they say, believe them.
What they tell you will be different than what you think of yourself. They see you differently than you see yourself, and they have an eyeball-based justification for believing in you. And you are not qualified to dismiss their justification. Their justification is grounded in your behavior. They watched what you did. They watched you persevere through trying times. They watched you treat people with kindness and respect. They watched you call out unacceptable behavior. They watched you say the unpalatable when everyone else was thinking it but was afraid to say.
It may be difficult for you to believe them, but you must. Their truth, their belief in you, is grounded in your behavior. They believe in you because they watched you. They have real examples. They have personal experience. Believe them.
And if you still don’t believe in yourself, repeat the process until you do.
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How To Create Clarity
Take a position. People will have to reconcile their thinking with yours and, together, the crew will deepen the collective understanding.
Take an opposite position. Announce you are running a thought experiment and take a position that is opposite of the prevailing theory. Make it good. Make it deep. Do it for real. The prevailing theory will be strengthened, adapted, or discarded, and everything will be better for it.
Take an opposite position to your own prevailing wisdom. If there’s no one to play with, repeat the previous exercise with yourself. Give yourself the business. I bet you’ll teach yourself something and you’ll have better clarity on what you know and what you don’t.
Challenge someone’s best thinking. Announce you want to help them sharpen their thinking. Ask them why they think as they do. When they answer, ask them “why?” again. Repeat this process until you’ve asked “why?” five times. This process is aptly named The Five Whys. If they don’t feel uncomfortable, you’re doing it wrong.
Draw a picture. Announce that you want to help solve the problem. Ask “What’s the problem?” Then, draw a picture of the problem and show it to the crew. It won’t be right, but that’s okay. Ask them to fix the drawing so it captures the problem. Repeat the process until the picture looks like the problem. From there, the solving will come easily. Here’s an old blog post from 2013 with a simple “problem defining” template — How Engineers Create New Markets and another from 2017 that describes how to sketch a problem — See Differently To Solve Differently.
Make a Map. Check out these two blog posts — To Make Progress, Make a Map (2023) and The Half-Life of Our Maps (2014).
I think it’s better to be clear than correct. Clarity brings contrast; contrast creates conversation; and conversation begets understanding.
Clarity is king.
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What race are you running?
The marathon is a two-to-three-hour race. The training plan is specialized and designed to get the athletes ready to run twenty-six miles. And the marathon runners are lean and light because the physics of their event demands it.
The 100-meter sprint is a sub-ten-second race. The training plan develops explosive power to accelerate quickly and strength to hold on for the last twenty meters. Sprinters are muscled all over – shoulders, chest, glutes, quads, and calves – because that’s what’s required to win their event.
The decathlon is a multi-day event. The training plan includes jumping, vaulting, throwing, sprinting, and distance running. Decathletes are strong, nimble, fast, robust, and multi-skilled because they compete in a wide range of events. They do it all, and they do it on their own. They are often called the best track athletes because they are highly capable in ten diverse events. But they cannot outlast a marathon runner or out-accelerate a sprinter.
The 4 X 400-meter relay is a three-plus-minute race in which each of the four teammates runs 400 meters carrying a baton and passes it to their teammate. They train as a team for their specific distance and build the right amount of strength. They are muscled all over, but a little less so than the sprinters. And they must work together with their teammates to time and coordinate a high-speed baton pass within the pass zone. If they drop the baton, they all lose, so teamwork is a must.
Some questions for you.
What are you built for?
Does your sport fit you?
Do you have a good training plan?
How much time will you spend on your training?
Do you want to work on one thing or ten?
Do you want to run solo or with a relay team?
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How To Create The Conditions For Good Things To Happen
Reduce the energy cost of virtue so it’s less than the energy cost of sin. (Dave Snowden)
Said another way – make it easy to do the right thing.
Don’t push through. Move obstacles out of the way.
Don’t tell people about their problem. Ask people about their problem.
Try small experiments and do more of what works and less of what doesn’t.
Don’t tell people they have a problem. Volunteer to help them.
Instead of Ready, Fire, Aim, try Ready, Aim, Fire.
Before trying to improve things, define the system as it is.
When two competing theories cause disagreement, agree to try both.
Slow down to go faster.
Say no so you can say yes.
Give praise in public and give criticism in private.
Say nothing negative unless you’ve exhausted all other possibilities.
Build trust BEFORE you need it.
These are good ways to create the conditions for good things to happen.
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It’s All About Your Questions
When you know the answer, do you ask the question to test others?
When you know the answer, do you ask the question to help others think differently?
When you know the answer, do you keep quiet because it’s not the right time for a question?
When you know the answer, do you ask the question even though it’s not the right time for a question?
What does that say about you?
When you think you know the answer, do you ask the question to seek the right answer?
When you think you know the answer, do you ask the question and risk looking like you don’t know?
When you think you know the answer, do you keep quiet for reasons you don’t understand?
What does that say about you?
When you don’t know the answer, do you ask in public to solicit diverse perspectives?
When you don’t know the answer, do you ask someone you trust in private?
When you don’t know the answer, do you throw away the question?
What does that say about you?
When you’re asked a question that doesn’t need to be answered yet, do you ask, “Do we need to know that yet?”
When you’re asked a question that cannot be answered yet, do you ask, “Can we know that yet?”
When you’re asked a question that is too costly to answer, do you ask, “Do we have enough time and money to know that?”
Do you have the courage to ask those three questions?
What does that say about you?
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Things aren’t good or bad. We make them that way.
More isn’t better, it’s just more. What makes it better is how it compares to the expectations we set.
Less isn’t worse, it’s just less. What makes it work is how we compare it to what we want.
Enough isn’t enough until we decide it is.
We forget what we have until we don’t have it.
Our health isn’t bad until we can’t do what we want to do. But don’t we decide what we want to do?
Activities aren’t fun unless the experiences exceed our minimum level of enjoyment. But aren’t we the ones who define that threshold?
When we look back at last year, we will have more of some things and less of others. None of the situations are good or bad, but we will make them that way by comparing what happened with what we wanted, what we expected, or the thresholds society sets for us. We will decide what’s good and what’s bad. We will define our level of happiness.
When we look forward to next year, we will set expectations or goals to have more of some things and less of others. We will define those thresholds and establish the criteria for good/bad. And at the end of the year, we will compare what happened against our self-defined thresholds. We will be responsible for our happiness.
Things happened last year. They were not good or bad. They just were. We can’t change what happened, but we can change how we feel about what happened. At the end of the year, may we be aware that we set our good/bad thresholds for the year. And may we remember that we defined our thresholds somewhat arbitrarily, and we can reset them along the way.
Things will happen next year. They will not be good or bad. They will just be. We won’t have infinite control over what happens, but we can control our good/bad thresholds. At the start of next year, may we set our good/bad thresholds skillfully.
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Elevate the Holiday Season by Understanding WHY
What is this all about?
What is the reason you do what you do? What’s your WHY behind the WHAT?
When you don’t do what you said you’d do, what’s the reason? And what does that say about you?
If the reason is right, I think it can be okay NOT to do something you said you’d do. But I try to set a high bar on this one.
When things get tough, what gets you to push through? For me, it’s about doing something for the people I care about.
When things go well, what causes you to give credit to others? For me, it’s about building momentum and helping people understand the special things they did to make it happen.
Why do you show up? When you ask yourself, do you have an answer?
How do you show up for? And the more difficult question – WHY?
When is it okay to be compliant in a minimum energy way? And how do you decide that’s okay?
When do you decide to apply your whole self to something that others think is misaligned with the charter? I think this says a lot about a person.
What are you willing to do even though you know you’ll be judged negatively for doing it? I’m often unsure why to do it, but I’m sure it’s the right thing to do. I don’t know what that says about me, but I’m okay with it.
To me, the WHY is far more important than the WHAT. The WHY explains things. The WHY tells the story. The WHY gives guidance on what will happen next time.
When you do something happen that’s out of the ordinary (a WHAT), I suggest you try to figure out the WHY. I have found that some seemingly nonsensical WHATs make a lot of sense when you understand the WHY underpinning the WHAT.
And during this holiday season, may you give people the benefit of the doubt on their WHATs, and take the time to understand their highly personal WHYs. That can make for a happier holiday season for all.
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Staying Too Long vs. Leaving Too Soon
When you start something, by definition, you will end it.
All good things come to an end. So do all bad things. That’s how it goes with things.
All new things start with the end of old things. That’s how things are.
What does it say when a phase of your life comes to an end?
Doesn’t the start of a new phase demand the end of an existing one?
When something ends, do you curse it or celebrate it, do both, or neither? And how do you decide?
If you stay with the old thing too long, what does that say? And how do you know it was too long?
Can you know it will be too long before you stay too long?
If you leave too soon, can you know that before you leave?
The follow-on results of a decision do not determine the quality of a decision.
There is no right decision to make.
Make the decision and then make it right.
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When is a rule not a rule?
What’s the rule? Are you sure?
Where did the rule come from? And how do you know?
When the rule was created, was there also a rule that it could not be changed?
Show me the rule book!
Is the rule always applicable, even after hours?
If the rule is limited to a certain location, work from home.
Is it a rule or a ritual? It’s easier to abstain from rituals.
Is it a rule or a rut? Ruts aren’t rules; they’re just how we’ve done it.
Is it a rule or a guideline? Squinting can easily transform a rule into a guideline.
If there’s a disagreement about what the rule is, take a position that’s advantageous to you.
If you don’t know it’s a rule, there’s no need to break it.
If one knows who broke the rule, was it really broken?
If the rules are unknown, don’t follow them.
If the context changed around the rule, the rule is no longer applicable.
If no one remembers why the rule exists, it’s no longer a rule.
If you don’t like a rule, run an experiment to show its shortcomings.
If a rule blocks progress, make progress.
If no one knows a rule was broken, it wasn’t broken.
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Sixteen Years of Wednesdays
I’ve written a blog post every Wednesday for the last sixteen years.
The first years were difficult because I was unsure if my writing was worth reading. Writing became easier when I realized it wasn’t about what others thought of my writing. For the next ten years, I let go and wrote about things I wanted to write about. I transitioned from describing things to others to writing to understand things for myself. I learned that writing about a topic helped me understand it better.
By writing every week, my writing skills improved. I learned to eliminate words and write densely. Early on, I wanted to sound smart and, over time, I became comfortable using plain language and everyday words. My improved writing skills have helped my career.
Over the last several years, writing has become difficult for me. After 800 blog posts, it became difficult to come up with new topics, and I started putting pressure on myself by trying to live up to an imaginary standard. I blocked my own flow, everything tightened, and the words came reluctantly.
Then I became tired of paragraphs. I wrote in topic sentences, bulletized lists, and a sequence of questions. Each topic sentence could have been the topic of a blog post; the individual bullets were standalone thoughts; and the questions ganged up to build the skeleton of a big theme. For some reason, it was easier to come up with a collection of big thoughts than to write in detail about a single topic.
I’m not sure what the future will bring, but thanks for reading,
Mike
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Mike Shipulski