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Sometimes it’s difficult to believe in yourself.  Here is a three-step process to elevate your self-belief.

1. Find someone who believes in you.
2. Ask them why they believe in you.
3. Whatever they say, believe them.

What they tell you will be different than what you think of yourself.  They see you differently than you see yourself, and they have an eyeball-based justification for believing in you.  And you are not qualified to dismiss their justification. Their justification is grounded in your behavior. They watched what you did.  They watched you persevere through trying times. They watched you treat people with kindness and respect.  They watched you call out unacceptable behavior.  They watched you say the unpalatable when everyone else was thinking it but was afraid to say.

It may be difficult for you to believe them, but you must.  Their truth, their belief in you, is grounded in your behavior.  They believe in you because they watched you.  They have real examples.  They have personal experience.  Believe them.

And if you still don’t believe in yourself, repeat the process until you do.